Olivia was back in town for a whirlwind vacation, the way she quickied last year.
Prior to her emigration in 2007, I barely spent time with her. There was a rather long period of non-interaction that ensued between her last few days in the same company we worked for and the day she flew to the middle east. The good thing about our relationship, though, is that we barely need time and space to reassure each other of the corny-cheesy-gooey things well-meaning friends are prone to. The corny-cheesy-gooey part has been hurdled way before (world) geography had separated us, the tearful phone call I made a day before her flight only being a sediment of all that goo.
It doesn't take much to bring our dynamics back to that familiar groove. Seeing her Saturday night after a year only seemed like seeing her a hiatus from our once-frequent all-nighters. We hugged, got ourselves drinks, and began our intellectual-slash-mundane ruminations - something we'd do on a normal day anyway (except that she was in opaque tights and peeptoes).
I appreciate our twisted union, which we share with a few more friends. I appreciate most of all the comfort that comes from not having to worry about how the other person feels, or how our relationship is untainted by schema or personal shit, or how there's no need for adjustments of any sort. Much like home.
Last weekend, it wasn't just her who was back in town.
One hour to live. What do you do?
Submitted by Jeff Zie.
Gee, I'd hug everyone (those within reach) I love.
Or.
I'll say that I've only an hour to live. They should be able to take it from there.